Les 4 cavaliers de l’apocalypse des relations de couple

John Gottman et sa femme Julie Schwartz Gottman sont les fondateurs du Gottman Institute de Seattle aux Etats Unis.  Ils sont très probablement les psychologues les mieux connus dans le monde de la thérapie du couple.  Pendant des années, John a travaillé avec des couples en difficulté et a déduit de ces entretiens qu’il y a souvent, parsemés dans les conversations d’amoureux ce qu’il appelle … Continue reading Les 4 cavaliers de l’apocalypse des relations de couple

So, Just How Good is Hypnosis for Treating Anxiety?

The Evidence… Gary Elkins, Ph.D., is a prominent hypnosis researcher and teacher. He is also the editor of the International Journal of Clinical and Experimental Hypnosis (IJCEH), the premier specialty journal in the field of hypnosis. Gary has made available to anyone and everyone interested in the effective treatment of anxiety – just about every clinician on the planet I’d guess – free access to … Continue reading So, Just How Good is Hypnosis for Treating Anxiety?

Prevention, Correction and Maintenance for Your Marriage: A Good Investment…

The following is an article I found particularly interesting and très à propos as so many couples struggle to make the decision to seek help only to wait too long!  Just imagine if you waited for your teeth to decay before going to the dentist out of being too shy or not wanting people “in your business”?  What if you waited for your car breaks to fail … Continue reading Prevention, Correction and Maintenance for Your Marriage: A Good Investment…

Socio-Emotional Intelligence – Not just for ADHD Kids

I work with a number of families whose kids have been labelled with ADHD or with some flavour of Anxiety Disorder…sometimes both.  I also work with many kids assessed as Gifted. A thing most of them have in common: problem making friends. Oftentimes this problem leads to a vicious circle of somatic complaints, school avoidance, low marks, low self esteem, bullying and in some cases, … Continue reading Socio-Emotional Intelligence – Not just for ADHD Kids

Getting to the Root of Compulsive Overspending

“Ok. don’t panic. Don’t panic. It’s only a VISA bill. It’s a piece of paper; I know exactly how much this VISA bill will be…. It’ll be about … $200. Three hundred, maybe. Yes, maybe $300. Three-fifty, max… …Instead of doing what I normally do – look at the minimum payment required and ignore the total completely – I find myself staring straight at the … Continue reading Getting to the Root of Compulsive Overspending

Depression and Bullying

Michael D. Yapko, PhD., psychologist, depression expert, wrote this article in his June 17, 2015 newsletter on the link between being bullied, being a bully in teen years and depression in adulthood. RESEARCH Teen Bullying Associated with Adult Depression In a recent online article in the British Medical Journal (BMI, June 2, 2015), researcher Lucy Bowes et.al. conducted one of the largest long term studies on the relationship between being a … Continue reading Depression and Bullying

Why French Kids Don’t Have ADHD

French child psychiatrists,… view ADHD as a medical condition that has psycho-social and situational causes. Instead of treating children’s focusing and behavioral problems with drugs, French doctors prefer to look for the underlying issue that is causing the child distress—not in the child’s brain but in the child’s social context. https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/suffer-the-children/201203/why-french-kids-dont-have-adhd Continue reading Why French Kids Don’t Have ADHD